Sharpen your perception because, “The wise of heart is called perceptive, and pleasant speech increases persuasiveness” (Proverbs 16:21)
Be gentle and…
show courtesy to all people (Titus 3:2)
Do all the good you’re able do to for somebody else (Gal. 6:10)
Pick up stuff for other people spiritually and physically— if you’ve got a strong back. Bear one another’s burdens (Gal. 6:2)
Be golden. As you wish that others would do to you, do so to them (Luke 6:31)
Understand what makes your own mind turn. Discern your own thoughts, identify your intentions (Heb. 4:12)
Talk to others like you would talk Jesus. How would you interact with Him? (Matthew 25:40)
Grace is like the Savior’s All-Spice seasoning; use it on every relationship (Col. 4:5-6)
Don’t underestimate the power of joy. Also, try and use your face to show it so your joyfulness isn’t your best kept secret. Praise God and be joyful as it attracts both the people that you need and people that need you— a win-win! (Psalm 100:1-5)
I Cor 13.1-3 steps on toes. A person could be truly exceptional in qualities most of us would love to have, if just barely. Without love even the most exceptional person is doomed.
Here are some the powerhouse-qualities that mean nothing without love:
1. The ability to speak multiple languages, with a working knowledge of the language of cosmic beings.
This is a person intellectually talented in an extremely difficult discipline, one that requires unlimited dedication. This is someone so dedicated to transcendent words that they pursue even the language of God’s holy ones.
This is a person who wants to know God’s word so badly that they learn Greek, Hebrew, and Aramaic to get an unadulterated look at the scriptures. They may even feel an obligation to spread this knowledge to others, so they learn multiple modern languages to accomplish this.
If not done because of selfless love, if they don’t care for their enemies, and if they don’t feed and clothe the poor, they’ve wasted their time.
2. The ability to masterfully teach, understand the times, and give accurate social predictions, all with a genius-level IQ.
This is a handy person to have around! They can give targeted lessons based on where their culture is and where it’s likely to go. They have an excellent grasp of first principles, and they can give just the right message at just the right time.
This person might trust in God so completely that they place their lives wholly in his hands. They trust him to take care of them. They trust him to remove all obstacles in their path.
But they don’t like people — ουθεν ειμι. They are nobody, they are meaningless. Their faith is pointless, their intellectual powers are useless.
3. The portfolio and conscience compelling them to liquidate all of their assets and distribute them to anyone who needs anything. This is coupled with a martyr’s spirit, so after draining their earthly goods they willingly die gruesome, painful, slow deaths for God’s sake.
But they don’t like people — so they threw it all away and gained absolutely nothing in return. Still doomed.
This is difficult! We want to be like this, and we want to emulate these qualities so badly. They’re good qualities, and we can’t be good Christians without them.
But if love isn’t what drives us to do all of those things, we might as well put our time and energy into something else. Love isn’t necessarily an emotion — we don’t always feel warm and fuzzies about other people. Love is a decision to do good things for all people, to forgive automatically, to put other peoples’ needs and feelings above our own, and to view all people (including our enemies) as being more important than self. The two most important commands are about love: for God and for other people. Without those two supporting everything we do, nothing we do matters. We’ll not get it right all the time. It’s a process that we’ll probably spend the rest of our lives trying to master! God expects us to aim at growth, and his grace takes care of the gaps.
If God allows, we’ll start looking at the behavioral symptoms of a loving spirit starting next week.
I was very happy to learn about some of your children. I am happy that they are following the way of truth, just as the Father commanded us. And now, dear lady, I tell you: We should all love each other. This is not a new command. It is the same command we had from the beginning (II Jn 4-5).
An enormous rodent originally from the tropical forests of South America, the capybara has recently gained popularity online. According to the BBC, these magnificent creatures can weigh as much as an adult man. Capybaras love water, so you can usually find them relaxing by bodies of water like rivers and lakes. Aside from their peculiar propensity to consume their excrement, their primary diet comprises grass. An internet sensation in 2020, a meme depicting a capybara the size of a dog won over viewers all over the globe.
Capybaras are not only large but also highly social animals. According to the Encyclopedia of Life, they live in family packs of dozens of individuals. Their sociability, however, extends beyond their species. As the amusing blog Animals Sitting on Capybaras points out, these rodents frequently serve as a resting place for other animals.
Capybaras are depicted post after post on that site as the animal kingdom’s lounge chairs, seemingly content as various creatures perch atop them. Because of their charming personalities and adorable antics, capybaras have become viral sensations online.
I even saw an incredible photo showing a capybara and a crocodile relaxing beside a river bank. I was surprised to learn this is a common sight, as crocodiles don’t usually prey on capybaras. What impressed me the most about the picture was how chill the capybara appeared while lounging only a few feet away from the crocodile’s dagger-like teeth and strong jaws.
Though it’s common for people to make jokes about having a spirit animal, it makes sense that the capybara would be a reasonable choice. It is friendly, laid-back, and fearless. Certain dietary choices aside, there is an excellent illustration we can draw from capybaras as Christians. Their observable behavior illustrates several Scriptures.
In no particular order:
Proverbs 18.24. In the New King James Version, the verse reads, “A man who has friends must himself be friendly, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.”
There is disagreement about how to translate this verse, specifically whether modern English translations based on older manuscripts are more accurate in their interpretation. I am unable to translate because I am not fluent in Hebrew. However, I have access to the same resources as others and have discovered that the verse may contain a pun, which adds to the translators’ confusion. The root of “friend” is the same as the root of “ruin.” This reason is why the verse is rendered differently in newer translations. As a result, I refer to the Jewish Publication Society’s translation of the Tanakh for more information.
Upon doing so, I read: “There are companions to keep one company, and there is a friend more devoted than a brother.”
Capybaras seem to surround themselves with companions, whether fellow capybaras or other creatures. You also see obvious advantages in other social animals, such as protection from their predators (e.g., jaguars), improved foraging proficiency, and stress reduction. Like birds, some animals remove parasites from capybaras’ fur. Capybaras also make noise to alert other animals to predators.
So, having friends, especially close friends you can rely on, is positive. In Ecclesiastes 4.9–12, Solomon reminds us that two are better than one.
Romans 12.18. Paul writes, “If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all” (ESV).
Capybaras are calm and docile. Thus, they do not disturb the animals around them. As herbivores, capybaras lack predatory instincts. So, other animals know they are safe around capybaras. Capybaras are also non-territorial. Hence, they will allow other animals to approach them without showing aggressive behavior to drive them away.
Although the Lord doesn’t command us to let the world walk all over us, we should still take responsibility for promoting a peaceful environment wherever we find ourselves. While it is true that there are ornery people with whom no one can live peaceably, you can ensure that you are not the one causing difficulties.
As an aside, this idea is one of the reasons I marvel at the Japanese, who, though not a Christian nation, manage to embody this Christian concept so well. This is because “wa” (harmony) is central to Japanese society and influences many aspects of daily life and interpersonal interactions. Within this framework is the concept of “omoiyari,” which we can render as empathy or consideration for others, lacking a direct English translation. Omoiyari is the sympathy and compassion for others that lead to thoughtful action. The key points are anticipating someone’s needs and providing for them in advance. To practice omoiyari, you must think in the other’s shoes and give them what they need without verbally expressing it. This awareness also leads to behaviors like refraining from talking loudly on the phone in public places and forming orderly lines when waiting for trains or buses.
It shouldn’t be surprising that capybaras are popular in Japan.
Most importantly, incorporating this “capybaric” disposition that Paul encourages gives us more opportunities to share the Gospel. No one will be interested in hearing God’s Good News if we seem cantankerous or aloof.
Philippians 4.5. Smack dab in the middle of a rich section of Paul’s letter to the Philippians, Paul writes, “Let your gentle spirit be known to all men. The Lord is near” (NASB 1995).
We’ve already said much about how chill these giant rodents are. I challenge you to look at a picture of a capybara and see if you perceive something other than the epitome of gentleness.
If you briefly consider the immediate context of Philippians 4.5, you will note that Paul addresses several key points.
Paul urges two members of the Philippian church, Euodia and Syntyche, to reconcile their differences and work together in the Lord, emphasizing the importance of unity. (Philippians 4.2-3)
Paul encourages the Philippians to always rejoice in the Lord and not to be anxious about anything. Instead, they should pray and make their requests known to God. (Philippians 4.4-6)
After encouraging the Philippians to pray, Paul assures them that the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus. (Philippians 4:7)
Paul encourages believers to fix their thoughts on true, honorable, right, pure, lovely, admirable, excellent, and praiseworthy things. (Philippians 4:8-9)
In this context, Philippians 4:5 serves as a bridge between these points. It highlights the importance of gentleness (or moderation, forbearance) in dealings with others, a quality that should be visible to all people, especially given the Lord’s return.
As part of Paul’s concluding advice, this verse instructs Christians to demonstrate their faith in their behavior, especially in their dealings with others. They should be mindful of God’s constant presence and that He will return soon.
The capybara’s amiable character is a striking parallel to the biblical teachings that emphasize the need for harmony, compassion, and tranquility. Although they have some unusual habits, these giant, peaceful rodents from South America show us how to live in peace with others, a universal quality that can serve as an example.
The capybara is an excellent example of how one should lead one’s life with calmness, empathy, and peaceful coexistence with others. This lesson can be learned from the scriptural wisdom of Solomon or Paul, as the capybara’s behavior is a testament to these virtues’ enduring power and appeal. By embracing these qualities, we can have more meaningful interactions with others and create opportunities to spread the uplifting message of the Gospel. The capybara sets an example by effortlessly endearing itself to its kind and other species.
Happy Earth Day! Yes, fifty-two years ago, the annual event created by peace activist John McConnel began. McConnel intended that we observe Earth Day on March 21 in connection with the vernal equinox. But instead, the academics and bureaucrats from the United Nations who got behind and promoted the annual observance chose April 22, which happened to coincide with the birthday of Vladimir Lenin.
McConnel, a Pentecostal, hoped that more Christians would get involved with Earth Day, finding inspiration in God’s declaration that he had made the earth for humanity (cf. Psalm 115.16). McConnel felt that March 21 was a more natural date and less likely to be politicized. However, he admits that Earth Day has become politicized, alienating Christians and conservatives.1
This year’s Earth Day theme is “Invest In Our Planet.” In addition to the alarmist hype that our time to “fix” things is short, you’ll note the following: “This is the moment to change it all — the business climate, the political climate, and how we take action on climate. Now is the time for the unstoppable courage to preserve and protect our health, our families, our livelihoods… together, we must Invest In Our Planet.”2
So, when did fighting pollution and conserving our natural resources become about changing business and politics? Those usurping the Earth Day idea from McConnel prove his point about its politicization. However, I will not write another lengthy post about climate change but refer you to an article posted on this blog on January 7, 2022, “Worry Not; The Sky Is Not Falling.”
In the meantime, as you hear people talk about our terrestrial home today, I wish to remind you of our eternal one. We are told not to love this world or the things therein since they will be destroyed (1 John 2.15-17). And while that doesn’t excuse us from being good stewards of the planet, it can be unhealthy to become so invested in a cosmic mudball that will only one day melt with fervent heat (2 Peter 3.10). Set your mind on things above (Colossians 3.2).
Jesus is coming. He promised to prepare His followers a dwelling place (John 14.1-3). With that promise is the one of His return. It is certain. Note the testimony of the angels at Jesus’ ascension that our Lord will return one day in the same way He left us (Acts 1.11). Our task is to prepare for that great day since we know not the day or the hour (Matthew 25.13). Are you ready?
Sources Cited
1 Sparks, Nicole, and Darrin J Rodgers. “John McConnell, Jr. and the Pentecostal Origins of Earth Day.” Assemblies of God Heritage Magazine, Flower Pentecostal Heritage Center, ifphc.org/-/media/FPHC/Heritage-Magazine/2010.pdf.
With conversation, when both are active listeners, you are exchanging ideas. Along with this, there’s body language and tone of voice which give clues to what the words mean to the speaker. You negotiate, reason, affirm or deny, and continue through these patterns while discussing any number of subjects. This process is invaluable to building relationships, working together, and even evangelism. For all its advantages, social media lacks almost all of those dimensions.
MIT professor and psychologist Sherry Turkle, in the book Reclaiming Conversation (New York: Penguin, 2015), makes the case that we are talking more than ever but we’ve lost the art of conversation. Turkle observes, “From the early days, I saw that computers offer the illusion of companionship without the demands of friendship and then, as the programs got really good, the illusion of friendship without the demands of intimacy” (7).What demands? Paying attention, building trust, having empathy, and giving thoughtful responses (as opposed to rude, reckless ones).
I’m not trying to militate against the use of social media platforms, texting, or emailing. But the more we gravitate toward those to do our “communicating,” the less we successfully navigate the more difficult, yet more rewarding, art of conversation.
When we read the Bible, we are struck–from beginning to end–with the pervasive importance of dialogue and conversation. From Genesis one, where we read the Godhead’s conversation, “Let us make man…,” to Jesus’ conversation with John in Revelation 22, conversation is indispensable. Not only did God create interpersonal relationships and the vehicle of conversation to build them, but He models it throughout the pages of Scripture.
This article seeks to inform, teach, and even persuade, but it is only one dimension of communication. One might argue that other forms of communication are not only necessary, but in many cases will be more effective. The snippets and soundbites of social media postings, much more condensed and lacking context, while being pithy and thought-provoking, are no substitute for what happens face to face in the tension, hard work, and unpredictable dynamic of conversation. Conversation necessitates practice, attention, and mental engagement.
From the dawn of time, God observed that it’s not good for man to be alone (Gen. 2:18). As suggested by the title of another book by Turkle, Alone Together, we find ourselves increasingly isolated from others and more ill-equipped for building real life relationships. The antidote to that is simple and so attainable.
Let’s engage people more. Let’s resort more to making real life connections and less to hiding behind screens. Let’s look for opportunities to do this with friends, acquaintances, and strangers. Let’s connect more in real life. As with anything, the more we practice the better we’ll get at it.
In James 5:7, James gives us some specific instructions concerning being patient. It is said as a response to those whose patience was being inflamed by the sinful actions of those in James 5:1-6. In just a few words, James has some pretty exhaustive instruction.
He addresses the who—“Be patient brethren.” There’s an ethic and morality expected of those in God’s family that is more than for everyone else. Almost every use of the word “brethren” in the New Testament is addressed to Christians. As light-shiners and salt-spreaders, we must exhibit patience with others and especially other Christians.
He addresses the when—This command has a duration (an expiration date)—“Until the coming of the Lord.” How long are we to remember Christ in the Lord’s Supper? 1 Corinthians 11:26 says, “Until He comes.” How long was Thyatira to hold onto what they had? Revelation 2:25 says, “Until Jesus would come.” How long was Corinth to refrain from unrighteously judging one another? 1 Corinthians 4:5 says, “Until the Lord comes.“ You don’t encounter this phrase very often, but every time it regards a matter of significance. There will not come a point in time when you can cease being patient—it’s as long as you live or until Christ comes again, whichever comes first.
He addresses the how—You’ve got to strengthen your heart (be inwardly committed, cause to be more firm in attitude or belief). James is saying, “Steel yourself because this is going to get hard sometimes.” When I think of people who have fallen away from the Lord, I think of conversations with people who say they gave up on the church or the elders or the preacher. They weren’t responsive enough, caring enough, or too nosy or not what they needed when they needed it. But ultimately this means these fallen ones weren’t firm and unchanging within.
He addresses the why—“The coming of the Lord is near.” Don’t focus on a time element here, but on the need to endure for as long as the time is. It’s constantly drawing nearer, not in a chronological sense, but an expectation and assurance that we expect it any time. I don’t want to be caught living in a state of impatience with my brethren. If I am, it means I’ve lost focus on Christ’s second coming!
I need to be convicted that impatience is not “no big deal.” James ties it to spiritual harmony, divine superintendence, and eternal safety. We can’t chalk up failure in this area as just our makeup, personality, and temperament. We must be obedient to the heavenly injunction and “be patient”!
Once, I received a call from a woman who watched our TV program. She shared her religious background with me, including the fact that she was raised in a church of Christ. While she was baptized many years before, she committed fornication, became pregnant, and had a child out of wedlock. She said that she publicly repented, coming forward to ask forgiveness. While some forgave, one prominent member wouldn’t let her forget her past sins. Ultimately, she left that congregation and soon after left the Lord’s church altogether.
She joined a large denomination in the area in 1985. She gave some interesting reasons for joining them. Reflect upon them for a moment.
(1) She received personal visits from church members.
(2) She was warmly welcomed by many who greeted her when she attended the services.
(3) She was quickly put to use in the church’s works.
Very simple formula, wouldn’t you agree? Some fundamental needs were recognized by that religious group: Approach. Accept. Assimilate. While their doctrine was wrong in vital areas, their practical wisdom was on target! While she traded truth for error regarding their teaching, she sought but didn’t find among God’s people the very things many seek today. None of the things she sought were wrong.
In the church, the main emphasis should be serving rather than being served. But look at what she sought. She sought personal contact from concerned people. The denomination responded. She sought acceptance, not of sinful choices, but of herself—the sinner. She received that. She sought ways to be involved, ways to serve. She was given opportunities despite some physical handicaps that restricted her.
There is much to do, much more than is being done, though we are doing much. Some bare essentials that all of us can be doing is visiting our visitors, making visitors feel like honored guests, and finding ways to include those who become members in the work of the church.
We have opportunities every week that walk through our doors. Are we doing our part to make ourselves a warm and welcoming congregation? People will form lasting opinions about the Lord’s church by what we do to make them feel welcome. Each individual Christian is accountable for visiting (Mat. 25:34ff), accepting (Js. 2:1-13), and including (1 Th. 5:11). Let us glow with the warmth of Christ! Who knows who we will turn onto the narrow path or who we will help stay on it?
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