Tag: Rebekah

Genesis: These Are The Generations (XXV)

Genesis: These Are The Generations (XXV)

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Finding The Right Wife (24:1-67)

Neal Pollard

The spiritual growth of Abraham was so incredible that, though God had blessed him so much in a material sense, he is burdened about finding Isaac a wife God would approve of (1-9). Abraham makes his servant swear by the God of heaven that he would assist him in finding his son a wife in keeping with the promises and protections he had received from the Lord. Abraham expected divine guidance and providence in the process (7-8).

Abraham’s servant sets out on this mission endowed with material goods and livestock for use in luring a potential bride and her family (10-11). Perhaps Gideon later would have had privy to the plan of this servant, or perhaps the practice of seeking a non-miraculous sign of God’s providence was common among the ancients. But, he prays for Isaac’s wife to be the woman who voluntarily draws water not just him but also for the camels (12-14). God answers his prayer while he’s still praying it, and her name was Rebekah. Rebekah is described as beautiful (16), sexually pure (16), and servant-hearted (17-21). Despite God clearly sending what he asked for, the servant still ponders whether or not it was God’s hand (21). What a reminder of the importance to ask God in faith with nothing wavering (Js. 1:6). 

The servants wants to know about her family, and what she tells him causes him to know that not only is she from Abraham’s homeland, but that she is related (22-24). Any doubt he had about God’s intervention is resolved, and “the man bowed low and worshipped the Lord” (26). He exclaimed, “Blessed be the Lord, the God of my master Abraham, who has not forsaken His lovingkindness and His truth toward my master; as for me, the Lord has guided me in the way to the house of my master’s brothers” (27). We are impressed that either Abraham cherished this servant because of his faith, or his faith flourished because he was exposed to the example of Abraham–or maybe it was both. 

Rebekah reports this exchange to her mother’s household. Her brother, Laban, becomes her representative and spokesman. What we come to learn of his character, ultimately, makes us wonder if his angle is financial more than spiritual. The text mentions that he saw the lavish gifts on her wrist before he heard her report (30). Laban welcomes Abraham’s servant, whose motives seem much nobler. Before he will eat or relax after his long journey, the servant recounts the details of his mission and the events that had just transpired (31-49).

Rebekah’s father, Bethuel, and brother are quick to confirm this as providential (50), and they are ready to offer Rebekah in exchange for the gold, silver, and garments for her benefit, and also “precious things to her brother and to her mother” (53). Abraham’s servant worships God again (52). The servant and the men with him enjoy their hospitality, but they are ready to return to Abraham the next day (54). Despite Rebekah’s family’s request that she remain for up to ten days, the servant is anxious to return. The family let Rebekah decide, and she is ready to immediately go (55-59). Her family blesses her and sends her off (60-61).

Isaac and Rebekah’s meeting might even be classified as romantic. Isaac is meditating in the field as she comes in the procession at the close of day. Curious, he walks toward the caravan. She veils herself as they meet, “then Isaac brought her into his mother Sarah’s tent, and he took Rebekah, and she became his wife, and he loved her; thus Isaac was comforted after his mother’s death” (67). 

Isn’t this one of the purest, most inspiring love stories not only in Scripture but in recorded history? A father who placed his son’s spiritual well-being above his portfolio or prestige. A man who trusts his father’s efforts to bless his life. A woman who prepared herself for vast blessings through a lifetime of humble service. A servant who depended on God every step of the way to play his part to get them together. And a God who at work the whole time. Isaac was devastated by his mother’s death, yet comforted by the wife God gave him. 

Fighting For Our Fathers

Fighting For Our Fathers

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Dale Pollard

Nebuchadnezzar became a beast in some form or fashion because of his pride in Daniel 4. Oddly enough we find out that his grandson, Belshazzar, falls into the same sinful snare in the very next chapter. This makes for more than an interesting story because it serves as an example of a common thread within scripture. The phrase “like father, like son” rings true in a negative way more often than not. It’s surprising to read of the many heroes of the faith who were failures as fathers. It’s almost disheartening to discover that it’s more common to find stories of poor parenting than successful ones. As tragic as these accounts are, it’s a blessing to have and learn from them. Let’s look into a few of these examples. 

Lot (Genesis 19.6-8)

Lot not only chose to pitch his tent outside of Sin City (Gen.13.12), he eventually moved his family into Sodom as well. In chapter 19 we read, “So Lot went out to them through the doorway, shut the door behind him, and said, ‘Please, my brethren, do not do so wickedly! See now, I have two daughters who have not known a man; please, let me bring them out to you, and you may do to them as you wish; only do nothing to these men, since this is the reason they have come under the shadow of my roof’” (6-8). Not long after these shocking verses, Lot’s remaining daughters take advantage of him in a cave after being saved from Sodom. Clearly Lot wasn’t a great father. 

ISAAC (Genesis 25)

Isaac loved Esau because he ate of his game, but Rebekah loved Jacob (Gen.25.28). Favoritism among parents is not uncommon to read about in scripture but this never seems to work out in the end. Issac was a weak father in other areas as well. He marries a deceptive wife and fails to rule his family in a God-fearing way. 

JACOB (GENESIS 37)

Like father, like son. Jacob shows favoritism towards Joseph and because of this we read the following, 

“Now Israel loved Joseph more than any of his other sons because he had been born to him in his old age, and he made an ornate robe for him. When his brothers saw that their father loved him more than any of them, they hated him and could not speak a kind word to him” (Gen. 37.3-4). 

ELI (I SAMUEL 2.22-25)

“Now Eli was very old, and he heard everything his sons did to all of Israel, and how they lay with the women who assembled at the door of the tabernacle of meeting. So he said to them, “Why do you do such things? For I hear of your evil dealings from all the people. No, my sons! For it is not a good report that I hear. You make the Lord’s people transgress… Nevertheless, they did not heed the voice of their father, because the Lord desired to kill them” (22-25b) 

Eli was a priest at Shiloh, but he was a pitiful parent. His sons, Hophni and Phineas, were allowed to make sacrifices to the Lord but they were known among the community as acting extremely wickedly. They fornicated with women in the tabernacle and stole sacrificial meats from the people. So horrible were they that the Israelites began to “abhor the sacrifices to the Lord” (v.17). 

Young Samuel, who was being raised by Eli in the temple, receives a vision from God who says that He is going to destroy Eli’s boys, but Eli’s response to this news is rather flippant. He says, “the Lord will do what is right according to Him.” Sure enough, the prophecy plays out exactly as God said it would and Eli ends up dying upon hearing of it in I Samuel 4. 

Sadly, Samuel turns out to be a failure as a father as well as the king, David, that he anoints. 

While these accounts aren’t uplifting to read, they serve as humbling warnings to fathers today. If you want to be a faithful father, you’re going to have to fight for it.