Curing Gray Hair?

Neal Pollard

As one who has been possessed of gray hair since college, I was particularly intrigued by the article I ran across from Popular Science.  A cream developed for a skin condition called “vitiligo” helped to restore lost pigment in the skin of some of those suffering from it.  Researchers believe it might do the same thing for those with gray hair. The theory is that those with gray hair have too much hydrogen peroxide in their hair follicles and shafts. They believe this cream could reduce that and restore a person’s natural hair color (via FASEB Journal, http://www.fasebj.org).

Reversing gray hair, restoring bald hair, shedding those extra, stubborn pounds, and similar ambitions appeal to our vanity, but they are not necessary for our souls.  Millions try product after product to address such perceived needs, willing to spend money and make sacrifices in such pursuits.  After all, we want to do what we can to look our best.

Yet, the greatest need of every generation has a 100% success rate for every one who has ever obtained it.  It goes beyond skin deep.  It reaches to the soul.  It may not change the outward appearance, but it renews the inner person (2 Cor. 4:16ff).

It is baffling that so many more do not move heaven and earth to address this true need.  Many are unaware they suffer from it.  So many more are in denial.  Still others are not dedicated to doing what it takes to have it.  The reasons are varied, but the majority do not want this cure.

Jesus’ blood.  It cost Him His life to make it available (John 19:34).  But, it is the unfailing cure (Eph. 2:13; Heb. 13:12; 1 Jn. 1:7; etc.).  Long after these bodies have decayed and disappeared in the ground, it will be working for us.  It has an eternal guarantee.  You cannot beat that, but you definitely must have it!  If you would like to know how to obtain this cure, read more about it here.

DO YOU WANT TO LIVE?

 
Neal Pollard
Amos writes Israel to warn them of the captivity to come, yet he writes to urge and warn them to repent for as long as God will forbear.  In Amos five, God gives them a three-fold encouragement to preserve or regain spiritual life.  All three required Israel to “seek” with the promise that they would find.  What was God’s prescription for life in this chapter?
“SEEK ME” (Amos 5:4-5).   In these verses, God contrasts Himself with Bethel, Gilgal, and Beersheba, three prominent cities in the northern kingdom.  Ward and Smalley show the extreme alliteration about Gilgal (“Gilgal shall surely go into exile”), considering it a literary device to drive home the fact of their punishment (cf. A Handbook on the Book of Amos, p. 102).  Bethel means “house of God” but they had made this and their other dwelling places “Beth Aven” (the house of evil).  Beersheba, along with the other two cities, were sites for worship.  Yet, their worship and their lives had turned from God.  The point with all three cities is that they represented the people turning somewhere else for help and purpose rather than Him.  All generations should mean what we ask in song–“Where could I go but to the Lord?”
“SEEK THE LORD” (Amos 5:6-7).  Amos ends this short section by adding his inspired echo to the Lord’s.  Instead of exposing false alternatives, now Amos is warning of spiritual consequences.  Punishment awaited those who did not recognize and submit to the rule and authority of God.   He warns against twisting justice and perverting righteousness.
“SEEK GOOD AND NOT EVIL” (5:14ff).  It seems Israel was saying the right things, but they were not living the right life.  Their mouths professed, but their lives denied.  An omniscient God was not fooled, and for that reason He could reject their pleas for help and deliverance.  Repentance means truly reaching for right and rejecting wrong from the inside out, heart and actions.  If we truly want life, our heart and lives will tend toward God.  Otherwise, whatever our lips say in worship or in trouble, God knows the truth.
Many have suggested that “seek” better means “come back” in the case of Amos five.   Today, one may be seeking for the first time or seeking to come back to God again.  Either way, God and good are the ways to life!

RUSSELL YOUNG: THE REAL “MOST INTERESTING MAN IN THE WORLD”

Neal Pollard

I have fond memories of many preachers, living and dead, but elders have been some of my best friends.  On Friday, I received word that one of the first two elders to shepherd me as a full-time preacher died of a sudden heart attack on Friday, April 26.  He was 91.

Perhaps I have never met a more diverse and interesting man in my life.  He knew John Wayne and was friends with Alvin York.  He did archaeological work, and some of his finds are housed at the University of Tennessee.  He was Tennessee’s middleweight boxing champion in his youth.  He ate lunch with J. Edgar Hoover and assisted him on numerous classified projects.  He was extremely well-read and as good a historian as any I have met.  He was manager of government communications in Washington, D.C., a post that helped him to meet and work with eight presidents (Kennedy-Bush I). He was a veteran of World War II and Korea, serving in both the U.S. and Australian armies in WWII and as a marine in Korea.  He fought in the Pacific theatre and spent time as a prisoner of war. In his career at AT&T, he helped to avert at least one serious international crisis with the Soviet Union.  He authored a book on the history of AT&T.  Truly, this just scratches the surface of his achievements in the world.

But, I did not get to see him in these venues.  He regaled me with story after story the first five years I worked as the preacher for the Cold Harbor Road church of Christ in Virginia, about some of these incidents, but I knew him as my elder, a man for whom and with whom I worked in Christ’s vineyard.  His influence in the community led him to study with a man from whose conversion literally dozens more have come.  I sat in with him on other successful Bible studies.  He had a rare ability to plainly tell Bible truth to people in a way that convicted and persuaded, rather than angered, them.  He knew the flock.  He gently corrected those members in error and led them back home.  He led the congregation to lovingly, consistently practice church discipline.  He counseled with Christians and non-Christians.  He and Ann were as benevolent and giving as any couple I have known–who knows how many people they helped.  They were neither afraid of nor strangers to hard work, from work days to cleaning the baptistry monthly to helping the elderly and the sick.  If he ever missed a major surgery of a member, I cannot recall it.  He had boundless energy which he apparently used non-stop to the very end.  He established congregations in Australia and Virginia, and he was a major force behind the early growth of the Cold Harbor congregation. He served as an elder in at least two congregations.

Russell Young was a Renaissance Man in the noblest sense of the word.  He symbolized what made his the “greatest generation.”  But, he challenges us with his example.  If a country boy from the Sequatchie Valley of Tennessee could achieve so much in a long, full life, what about you and me?  The church can have great and numerous leaders to guide it to great heights, if there is a will within the men among us.  For now, those of us who knew Russell will long for the endless day of reunion with him in heaven!  Praise God for “mighty men” like Russell Young!

SEVEN WORKS OF CHRIST IN COLOSSIANS ONE

Neal Pollard

When Epaphras reported to Paul about the church at Colosse, he must have told him not only of their loving nature but also about a strange, new teaching bothering them.  It claimed to be a philosophy (2:8), had elements that sounded like Judaism (2:11,14,16-17), insisted that certain mystical powers were to be worshipped rather than Christ (2:15,18-19), taught the body is evil and must be abused (2:20-23), but claimed to be Christians (2:3-10). How do you respond to such a complex, multifaceted teaching?

The Holy Spirit though Paul exalts the supremacy of Christ. He taught Jesus as the absolute supreme and sufficient One throughout the epistle (read through and see how many proofs of this you can find in these four short chapters—I found 13 in just the first two chapters).  But I want you to notice seven great works of Christ, found in Colossians one, which point to His matchlessness.

  • REVELATION (9). As opposed to the false knowledge of the ones condemned by Paul in this epistle, Paul points them to “the knowledge of His will” (9) for “understanding” (9) and “increasing in the knowledge of God” (10). Such allows us to walk right and bear fruit. The written revelation strengthens us with His might. He did that work through the Spirit (Jn. 14:26; 16:13).
  • SALVATION (14). Paul tells us we have redemption and forgiveness in Him! He did that work at Calvary.
  • CREATION (16). There was no creative act without Him.  “All things” were created by Him.  That’s exhaustive in nature.
  • INCARNATION (19). Though coming in the flesh was not necessarily an act performed by Christ, He did the work of being a human flawlessly.  No one else ever did. In Colossians 2:9, Paul completes the thought implied here, that the fullness of God dwelt in Jesus “bodily.”  It also connects the statement in verse 19 to the thought in the next several verses. This work was completed at Calvary (cf. Jn. 19:30).
  • RECONCILIATION (20-22). His death at Calvary, called redemption and forgiveness earlier, also involved bringing mankind back to God. Sin separated us. When we favorably respond to His offer, Jesus brings peace and makes us presentable (22).
  • EXPECTATION (27).  What was long a mystery is now known: “Christ in you, the hope of glory.” His successful atonement gives us hope in the most hopeless circumstances.
  • FORTIFICATION (29). God left us a work to do, nothing more important than the evangelization of the world (cf. 23,28). Jesus strengthens us for that task, causing us to have supreme confidence (cf. Ph. 4:13).

Nobody can compare to Jesus. Not the mystery cults. Not materialism. Not world religions. Not atheism. Jesus is supreme because His work is sublime! May this help us never surrender!

 

Let Us Praise

Let Us Praise.

Let Us Praise

Neal Pollard

Prayer is an area in which all of us can grow.  How beautiful it is to be led in prayer by a godly man who seems obviously seasoned in the practice of prayer!  If we are discerning, we can see some marks of a mature, developed prayer life.  While there are many characteristics of such, one has to be the practice of praising God in prayer.

David was a man who modeled effusive praise in his prayers to God.  The Psalms teach us praise through David’s writings, and at least 25 of the 150 have been catalogued as psalms of praise (or one out of every six)!  Take just one of these, Psalm 40, and notice how David lavishes praise on God as he prays to Him.  The maturity of his prayer here is in stark contrast to some prayers, noted for the abundance of the requests and petitions while notably omitting praise to God.

In Psalm 40, David praises God for deliverance (1-2), bringing joy (3), and His works (5). Though the middle of the Psalm is a petition for help, David cannot help but return to the theme of praise before he concludes his prayer.  I love the ending.  He says, “Let all those who seek You rejoice and be glad in You; Let such as love Your salvation say continually, ‘The Lord be magnified!’ But I am poor and needy; Yet the Lord thinks upon me. You are my help and my deliverer; Do not delay, O my God” (16-17).

May I encourage us, beginning with our personal prayer lives, to give forethought and be intentional in this regard.  Find ways and reasons to praise, exalt, and magnify God. Think of His nature, His power, His love, His concern, His majesty, and His holiness.  Tell Him how great He is!  See yourself in stark contrast to His perfection and sovereignty.  What will flow from that will not be a desire to be helped, but a gratitude that will show up in your prayers.  You will feel the need and desire to thank Him specifically and at length for all He has done, is doing, and will do.

Let us be powerful people of prayer!  Let us praise!

“I’ve Got Something More Important To Do”

“I’ve Got Something More Important To Do”.

“I’ve Got Something More Important To Do”

Neal Pollard

In John 4:7, the Bible says that a woman of Samaria came to draw water.  She met Jesus at the well and He taught her in such an incredible way that John 4:28 says, “The woman then left her waterpot” in her excitement to tell her neighbors about Jesus. In John 4:8, Jesus sent His disciples into the city to buy food. When they return with it in John 4:31 and urge Him to eat, Jesus seems to have lost interest in physical food in favor of another kind of food, His father’s will and work (John 4:34).  In both cases, the physical interest was eclipsed by the spiritual need.

How unlike the woman and Jesus we can be sometimes!  A workday, service project, gospel meeting, fellowship activity, or involvement meeting is announced, but we rarely if ever participate.  Instead, we have prioritized earthly things over these.  We let our children miss church services for their sports, homework, job, or other activities, choosing or allowing them to choose the earthly over the spiritual.  Do we ever abandon Jesus for the water pot, the food, or some 21st-Century equivalent?

I am convicted that I have often chosen the earthly over the spiritual when I worry about this world and its distractions, when I neglect prayer and Bible study, when money and material things become too important to me, and when I am not actively seeking ways to serve Christ or save souls.  An occasional shortcoming that does not characterize me is one thing, but I do not want to become like those bread-chasers in John 6.  I do not want to resort to Christ when all else is falling apart in my life.  I want to make Him the priority of my life, letting Him fix what is broken in me and use me as a tool in His hand.  I want to see Christ’s will as most important and say instinctively, “I’ve got something more important to do than ‘work for the food that perishes'” (John 6:27). What about you?

FLYING WITHOUT A LICENSE

west visalia--may 5 160Neal Pollard

I have been regularly flying for nearly twenty years, but last Saturday I did something I had never done. I greatly regretted it.  As Kathy and I approached Pena Boulevard for her to drop me off, it dawned on me that I left my entire wallet at the house.  It is 45 minutes from our house to the airport and my flight was leaving in less than 90 minutes! I had no idea what happens when you attempt to fly without a government, photo identification (or even prescription meds), but now I do!  I got the “special treatment.”  After checking my bags, I went to security and told them I had no identification. A TSA officer was specially assigned to me.  We sat at a table and he called an important, government phone number.  They proceeded to do a background check on me, complete with a mini game of 20 questions to prove I was who I claimed to be.  After clearing that hurdle, I got to go the front of the line and undergo “extra screening.”  While it was not as bad as you might imagine or have bad dreams about, it was quite “personal.”  My laptop bag, with its 47 pockets, was thoroughly searched and swabbed. Ultimately, with these “backup measures” executed, I was allowed to go to my flight which I barely made.

While there’s an obvious travel moral to this story, I could not help but think that some people consider the matter of eternity in the same way.  They do not obey the gospel plan of salvation or they live an unfaithful Christian life.  They know they should not, but they believe that God will ultimately save them anyway.  They may only get in by the “skin of their nose,” but somehow, some way, God will have a backup plan for the disobedient.  Friends, such thinking is fatally flawed.

Paul says, “And to you who are troubled rest with us, when the Lord Jesus shall be revealed from heaven with his mighty angels, in flaming fire taking vengeance on them that know not God, and that obey not the gospel of our Lord Jesus Christ: Who shall be punished with everlasting destruction from the presence of the Lord, and from the glory of his power” (2 Th. 1:7-9). This sobering passage reveals no alternative to the one (Jn. 14:6), narrow (Mt. 7:13-14) way.  The Bible records no alternative to that way.  We must make sure we depart this life with the “proper credentials”–the blood of Christ covering our sins!  Do not leave earth without that!

P.S.–Overnight express just delivered my license for my return flight! Thank you, Kathy!

The White (And Black) Tupelo Tree

The White (And Black) Tupelo Tree.

The White (And Black) Tupelo Tree

Neal Pollard

The white tupelo tree grows in abundance only in the wetlands of the Florida panhandle and south Georgia (“tupelo” is a Creek Indian word meaning “swamp”). But, in the hands of the right beekeeper, those trees wed with honey bees to make some of the finest honey in the world.  It is “prized for its mild floral flavor, high fructose content and light amber color” (Stuart Englert, American Profile, April 7-13, 2013, p. 14ff). Bees are drawn to these trees that bloom in April and May.  Famed “tupelo honey” comes from the white tupelo tree.

But do you know about the black tupelo tree? Floridatupelohoney.com gives it almost footnote level notice on their website.  They say, “Black Tupelo, Nyssa Biflora, blooms in advance of white tupelo and is used to build up bee colony strength and stores. Black tupelo produces a less desirable honey which will granulate and is typically sold as bakery-grade honey.”

Now, honestly, if you are a honey lover, which would you prefer?  A honey compared by some to “fine wine” that will not granulate or a bakery grade, less desirable honey?  It seems clear-cut.

But, do not miss the fact that without the black tupelo tree, there is no premium honey from the white tupelo.  The black tupelo is vital to the survival of the bee colony which eventually yields the more delicious kind.  Black tupelo bloom first and fortify the bees for the task of gleaning nectar from the white tupelo and generating that expensive, prized honey.

Consider a very specific analogy from this example out of nature.  In 1 Corinthians 12, Paul makes the point that God has placed the members, each one of them, in the body, just as He desired” (18). He says “weaker members” are necessary (22) and those deemed less honorable and less presentable are still given special treatment (23).  Each part is dependent upon the other.  No member can say, “I don’t need you.”

Some members are more visible, more audible, and seemingly more honored.  Yet, they are not one whit above those members less so. In fact, no one in the body can survive without the rest of the body.  God made it that way. Nothing worthwhile can be accomplished without the beautiful cooperation stemming from everyone’s contribution. The world cannot benefit from the salvation of Christ without all of us doing our part.  The church cannot thrive without each of us producing according to our abilities. God cannot be honored without every foot, hand, eye, and ear playing his or her part.  May we never forget that!

 

 

Why Are Your Co-Workers Unhappy?

Why Are Your Co-Workers Unhappy?.

Why Are Your Co-Workers Unhappy?

Neal Pollard

Have you noticed that your co-workers are unhappy?  Maybe there is the guy (or gal) whose lips are loose and who lets you and everyone else know why.  Yet, statistics indicate that a great many workers are unhappy, staying in their current position only because of economic uncertainty and high unemployment rates.

Matthew Wong of Inc.com reports that site’s findings about the source of dissatisfaction.  It is not their co-workers, boss, or amount of vacation time.  It is, in order, “on-the-job stress,” “health benefits,” and “salary.”  The study goes on to say men most want more money and a promotion, while women want reduced and flexible hours. Gen X-ers want a higher job title, but millennials ask for more training.  Asked about what perks they want in addition to basic benefits, they said, “free beverages,” “a tablet or smartphone for personal use,” and “free massages.”  Author and Harvard professor, Teresa Amabile, says, however, that one thing matters to many people more than either benefits and perks, and that is “real job satisfaction” (via infographic on ragan.com).

There is quite a bit to mull over in that release.  Instead of bemoaning the obvious spoiled attitude, materialism, and greed reflected in these answers, consider what at least one expert (and many others besides her) believe make us happier.  That is job satisfaction.

That is more than being thankful for employment.  It means doing something you feel like is making a viable contribution, that is as fulfilling as it is enjoyable. All of us want to feel like we have made a difference in the world during our time in it.

But, whether you are a street sweeper or CEO, a sacker of groceries or supervisor, you can find profound purpose in your “real” profession.  The King James Version refers to the Christian life as a “profession” four times (1 Tim. 6:12; Heb. 3:1; 4:14; 10:23). In each instance, the word used is some form of the Greek word meaning to “say the same thing as another.” But, as used in each verse, the idea is of recognizing ourselves and showing others than Jesus reigns in our lives.  That is a lifelong process, something we carry with us wherever we go–including our job.  We see our occupation as a means to an end.  Our true profession is Christianity.  The perks, promotions, and profit are yet to be realized, but they will be!  Let us ever be faithful in His employ!

“Preach On, Brother”

Neal Pollard

I was barely 21 the Sunday night I was asked to preach at the Holt Street congregation in Montgomery, Alabama.  Kathy, whom I had not been dating for very long, went with me to this memorable appointment.  This good church was exemplary for its “vocal encouragement.”  As I preached through one of my early sermonic attempts, the good brothers on the pew were constantly saying “amen” to what I was presenting.  They also filled the air with a steady chorus of “yes,” “that’s right,” and “preach on, brother.”  It was bliss to be spurred on from start to finish!  Driving back to campus, I asked Kathy what she thought of my preaching that evening.  She said, and has said more than once since then, that it was one of my best efforts.  Could the steady encouragement of the brethren have made that much difference?

The draining effect of preachers deciding to leave full-time ministry among the Lord’s church has long since become anecdotally acknowledged throughout our great brotherhood.  There are various reasons why men are leaving.  Some are forced to do so because of personal messes they or their spouse make.  Others have had to make this choice for financial reasons.  There comes a time when it seems that a man’s age limits or nearly eliminates his opportunities to put his accumulated wisdom to work in the local setting.  However, the plague of discouragement may claim more preachers than any other cause.

Not all discouragement comes from external sources.  Preachers are people, too.  They are not immune from allowing the problems, pressures, and perplexities of life to get the better of them.  Like anyone else, the preacher can bring discouragement on himself through his habits, shortcomings, or faulty perceptions.  Certainly, every preacher can tell stories of how they have been discouraged by the unfair actions of others.  Furthermore, the same problems that confront others at various stages of life face the preacher from the time he is single through his golden years.  Marital and family struggles are matters with which he must cope as much as any other.

Yet, hopefully, the preacher comes to appreciate that his work can be more rewarding and joyful than any other earthly path could be.  He gets to work with the best people on earth, serving the greatest Employer an earthly worker could have, getting to do the greatest work on earth, and being involved in the most important business of all time and eternity.  If you are a preacher, you have a special place in the heart of God.  Someone thrillingly put it, “God had one Son, and He was a preacher!”

If you attend a congregation that has a preacher, you probably know that his is a world that in many ways is different from the world in which most others live.  Yet, hopefully, he loves what he does and he loves the church.  There will be those who do not fit into this general pattern, including the lazy, the cantankerous, the perpetual victim, and the proud.  However, such are the exceptions rather than the rule. In a day when Satan and his willing servants are growing bolder and stronger, we need to encourage more great men and say to them in every way that we can, “Preach on, brother!”

A Great Lesson From Little Jack Hoffman

A Great Lesson From Little Jack Hoffman.

A Great Lesson From Little Jack Hoffman

Neal Pollard

It was ESPN’s number one among its Top Ten plays for over the weekend.  I saw it yesterday morning and was frankly moved to tears.  Jack Hoffman, a 7-year-old battling brain cancer, was given the handoff in Saturday’s Nebraska Spring football game.  He ran 60 yards for a touchdown (see it here).  Everyone, the offense, the defense, and those on the bench ran behind him and congregated in the end zone in celebration of the boy’s accomplishment.  60,000 fans at Memorial Stadium stood up and cheered.

Jack is on a break from 60 weeks of chemotherapy, and he has undergone two surgeries since doctors discovered the cancer two years ago.  While the tumor has shrunk, time will tell how this ends for this courageous little boy.  Meanwhile, he and his family have a memory for a lifetime.  To me, the most touching part was how the entire Cornhusker team rallied around this sick little boy (details from washingtonpost.com).

The church of our Lord is the most important institution on earth.  To be a part of it is to be in the place where all spiritual blessings flow (Eph. 1:3), to be in Christ (Gal. 3:27), and to be part of God’s household (1 Tim. 3:15).  Of the myriad of blessings, Christians are part of a family.  When one of our family members is sick, hurting, suffering, spiritually struggling, has fallen from Christ but returned to Him, or in any other way finds himself or herself in a battle bigger than themselves, God designed the church to rally around that one and support them.  Paul urged supporting the weak (Acts 20:35). The writer of Hebrews urges us to “strengthen the hands which hang down, and the feeble knees” (Heb. 12:12).  Long ago, the prophet said, “Encourage the exhausted, and strengthen the feeble” (Isa. 35:3).

Nothing is more moving to see than the church family rallying around a fellow-Christian in need of help.  I know I am not alone in feeling this way!  May we always feel comfortable enough to invite others into our lives to help us as we struggle to overcome and make heaven our home!

Only A Step

Only A Step.

Only A Step

Neal Pollard

I did not see it live, but was told about it the next day.  In fact, I was shown a YouTube video of it and I could barely stomach it.  It was the jump seen around the world.  Players were swooning. His coach, Rick Pitino, “looked like he had seen a ghost.”  Kevin Ware, in going out to contest a three-point shot, leaped and landed awkwardly.  No, he landed catastrophically!  As he landed, his leg went one way and his shoe went another and the bone split.  The awkward impact was enough to cause the tibia to break through the skin.  It was bad enough that it was the lead story on the national news. It was bad enough that Kevin got a personal phone call from Joe Theismann!

It only took a second or two, one decision, one act to change this young man’s life.  Frankly, he was not the “main attraction” on a Louisville team that appears to be the best in the country, at least not before the injury.  While the prognosis for his ability to recover and play again is optimistic, Ware will never forget the impact of that one step.

Repeatedly, the Bible refers to one’s life as a “walk.”  That walk is made step by step.  Those figurative steps we take impact the remainder of our journey on earth.  Some steps are mundane and routine.  Others are life-changing.

When trying to avoid the jealous wrath of King Saul, David tells Jonathan that there is only a step between himself and death (1 Sam. 20:3).  We sing a church hymn entitled “Only A Step,” which is meant to exhort the non-Christian to see that all it takes is a step–out of the pew and down to the front–to go from lost to saved.  Thereafter, we must carefully consider the steps we take.  We effect our own destiny and that of others, too (cf. Job 34:21; Ps. 119:133; 1 Pet. 2:21).

May we each consider the steps we take and the impact they have.  Our steps may not become a “viral video,” but they are seen by God and by others.  Walk so as to have a happy landing!

Turbulence

Turbulence.

Turbulence


Neal Pollard

Air, fluid, and similar turbulence are characterized by unpredictability and uncontrolled change. Air turbulence disrupts the flow of the wind. The Mississippi River, when it contacts a tributary like the Ohio River, comes together and the hydraulic propulsion creates violent turbulence at the point where it converges. The water smoothes out and becomes less turbulent as it gets farther from the point where it united. While there are circumstances like flying and boat riding where we come to expect that turbulence is quite possible, it can still catch us off guard and be unpleasant.

For those who are married, think back to your wedding day. The bride was beautiful in her white gown, made-up hair, and that general sparkle and shine that made her seem almost angelic. The groom seemed handsome, strong, and full of vitality. This was the culmination of true love. Life and your outlook on it were bright and sunny. This was the beginning of something wonderful. But, as these two mighty forces converged, turbulence was inevitable. Coming together and being united is not done smoothly and without waves. Two people from different backgrounds, viewpoints, and histories do not automatically make things work out without adjusting to the turbulence.

God did not make us weak people. You cannot collapse and fold when things get rough and choppy. You cannot get off the plane during the turbulence. It is not smart to get out of the boat when the waves and the turbulence are stirred. Your best hope is to stay put and ride out the bumps and bounces. But, oh the reward and blessing of enduring whatever unrest and uproar you encounter in marriage. Think of how pleasant the ride of marriage is, and help make it so! Just do not be a wimp and give up at the first sign of marital turbulence. The unpredictability can be so much a part of the excitement!