Category: Prodigal Son

The Prodigal Son

Carl Pollard

In our fast-paced world, many things that were once considered cutting-edge are now becoming outdated. Think about it: we’ve swapped VHS tapes for CDs, Walkmans for iPods, and pagers for smartphones. Traditional taxi cabs are facing tough competition from rideshare services like Uber and Lyft, which millions of people use every day. And it’s all too common for passengers to leave behind valuable items. This year alone, nearly half a million phones, 300,000 wallets, and 100,000 wedding rings were forgotten in these vehicles.

Among the lost items, some stories stand out. One Uber driver discovered an ankle monitor left behind, while another found a pet turtle chilling in the back seat. And then there’s the passenger who accidentally left a complete missile guidance system from Lockheed Martin. We have difficulty keeping up with our belongings, a challenge that many parents might relate to, having temporarily misplaced their kids at least once.

We all know that sinking feeling when we lose something valuable. It usually happens when we’re in a rush, and the more we search, the more frustrated we become. It’s a mix of annoyance at ourselves and disbelief that it happened in the first place. We might even start questioning the intentions of those around us, convinced that someone has moved our stuff. 

This feeling of loss is central to what Jesus talks about in the parable of the Prodigal Son, found in Luke 15:11-32. This story is so well-known that even the non-religious might recognize it. It unfolds as Jesus addresses the Pharisees, explaining why He chooses to hang out with tax collectors and sinners. Unlike the judgmental Pharisees, Jesus shows genuine love and compassion for the lost, just like the Father.

Each parable He shares builds on the last, emphasizing the intrinsic value of every lost soul. In the parable of the lost sheep, even one sheep out of a hundred matters to God. In the story of the lost coin, one out of ten holds significance. And in the Prodigal Son’s tale, the focus is on one son out of two, illustrating various ways people can find themselves lost. Some wander off ignorantly, like sheep without a shepherd, while others, like the lost coin, get distracted by the world around them. The younger son represents those who rebel against what they know is right, and the older brother embodies self-righteousness, blind to his own lost state.

As we dig into this parable, keep in mind that it’s not just about a wayward son; it’s a powerful exploration of God’s grace and the unwavering love of the Father.

Departure (11-13)

The story kicks off with the younger son asking for his inheritance while his father is still alive—a request that would have hit hard. Those listening, especially the Pharisees and scribes, would have been shocked. This wasn’t just rebellious behavior; it was downright disrespectful—essentially wishing his father dead. Yet, the father grants his son’s wish, demonstrating a love that respects free will, even when it leads to foolish choices. God wants us to make wise decisions, but He gives us the freedom to wander away.

The son takes his inheritance, and what follows is a stark reminder: chasing after pleasure often leads to emptiness.

Descent (14-16)

As the money dries up and the partying comes to an end, the son’s descent into despair becomes evident. Feeding pigs—a job repugnant to his Jewish upbringing—symbolizes how far he has fallen. His life spirals out of control, and he ends up with nothing. The more he indulges, the less satisfaction he finds. Jesus makes a point of saying, “no one gave him anything,” marking his rock bottom.

If you find yourself in a similar situation, how you respond next can change everything.

Decision (17-19)

In his misery, the son finally comes to his senses. He realizes he’s not the person he should be and that he misses his father. Instead of blaming others or wallowing in self-pity, he focuses on his father. He declares, “I will arise and go to my father.” This is how we need to return to God—by focusing on Him, not the mess we’ve made. When we’re lost, the only thing that truly matters is the Father.

The lost son shows us what true repentance looks like—a change of heart that leads to a change in direction. He shifts from “Father, give me” to “Father, make me,” and it’s the latter that brings him the joy he desperately seeks.

Return (20-24)

Finally, the son gets up and heads back to his father. While he’s still a distance away, his father sees him and runs to embrace him, filled with compassion. The father showers him with love and gifts—a ring, a robe, and a feast. The son starts to recite his carefully prepared speech, but it seems the father hardly hears it. Just the act of returning speaks volumes about the son’s heart.

The father doesn’t merely accept him back; he honors and blesses him, showing the depth of his love and grace.

In essence, the parable of the Prodigal Son isn’t just a story of loss and redemption; it’s a powerful reminder of the love that awaits us when we choose to turn back to the Father.

The Prodigal Cat 

Friday’s Column: Brent’s Biblical Bytes

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Brent Pollard

Our beloved cat, June-bug, returned home recently. He had been absent for over a year. We assumed he was dead. Yet, the “power of love” drew him back to the house. Oh, no, it was not his love for us. He could sense a female that has entered estrus. And that is why he is back. Will he stick around? We shall see. However, I cannot help but notice the toll his “prodigal living” has had on him in the interim. Before his departure, he began having irritation in his left eye. It wept a lot. It would sometimes seal his eye shut. He now looks like a human with ptosis (i.e., drooping eyelid). Frankly, that is how I was able to identify him since his coat is darker and matted.  

Otherwise, he seems as if he has eaten well. He was always a good hunter. The earlier generations of cats that took up with us were better hunters. These newer cats have become so accustomed to humans providing food that I wonder how well they would fare if on their own. The saddest part of June-bug’s return is noting how feral he has become. Previously, June-bug liked when we pet him. Now, he will not come near us, despite acting as if he still faintly recalls us. 

Have you ever encountered a brother or sister now living prodigally? It can be heartbreaking, correct? Sometimes the toll sin has had upon them is obvious. Hard-living might make them look haggard and aged beyond their years. The Bible paints this picture as well. What happened to the “original” prodigal? Given his hunger, we might infer he had become gaunt. He was so desperate that he was willing to eat pig slop (Luke 15.14-16). His poverty likely reduced his apparel to rags. What sight must he have presented to the awaiting father?  

And what does Solomon elsewhere say of the drunkard?  

“Who has woe? Who has sorrow? Who has contentions? Who has complaining? Who has wounds without cause? Who has redness of eyes? Those who linger long over wine, Those who go to taste mixed wine.” (Proverbs 23.29-30 NASB1995) 

“Wine is a mocker, strong drink a brawler, And whoever is intoxicated by it is not wise.” (Proverbs 20.1 NASB1995) 

Yes, sin can often devastate on this side of eternity as well. Things like substance abuse will alter a person’s demeanor, cause them to injure themselves while in a stupor, or pick fights with others.  

Beyond the physical difficulties encountered because of sin, we must likewise consider the psychological toll, particularly guilt. The psalmist refers to a sinner’s inability to stand within the assembly of the righteous (Psalm 1.5). While their lifestyle would strip them of their desire to be within the Christian community, their guilt would not permit them to endure such association for long. Seeing others striving to walk in the Light(1 John 1.7) would remind them from whence they had fallen.  

Yes, a prodigal can be a sad sight to beyond, whether a cat or especially a human being. The Father shows us how to treat those humans who have strayed. Once they have repented, we show them love and acceptance (Luke 15.20-24). It is the extension of the same grace we would all hope to receive under similar circumstances. It is not our place to punish the erring brother or sister for the time they have wasted in the far country of sin. We need to create a pleasant home environment in which they will desire to remain. Then we can all enter into the joys of our Master.  

“Toying With God All My Life”

Monday’s Column: Neal At The Cross

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Neal Pollard

It was such a beautiful moment yesterday morning. A brother in Christ from our area who has been attending with us for a few months responded to the invitation. As Kevin and I took his confession, he spoke of sins in his past that fill him with regret. Though he was raised in the church, he has been away from the Lord for a long time. Among the things he expressed from his tender heart, he confessed, “Ive been toying with God all my life.” His point was simple. He felt doubt about God’s existence and concern for him, and it led him to make regrettable choices. But, recently, his study of God’s word and fellowship with God’s people led him to see how real God is and how much he needs Him in his life. 

I wonder how many of us could confess that, at times and in ways, we’ve toyed with God in some way. Perhaps we appealed to Him only when we were in trouble that we couldn’t solve ourselves. Maybe we promised Him we’d be faithful if only He’d give us something we specifically prayed for or thought we needed, and when we got it we broke our promise. It might have been a time or season when we “played church” and acted the role of Christian in the building but acted like the world when around them. 

This is not a tendency that started in our current generation. It is a human tendency. Bible writers exposed such thinking. God tells Ezekiel, “But as for you, son of man, your fellow citizens who talk about you by the walls and in the doorways of the houses, speak to one another, each to his brother, saying, ‘Come now and hear what the message is which comes forth from the Lord.’ They come to you as people come, and sit before you as My people and hear your words, but they do not do them, for they do the lustful desires expressed by their mouth, and their heart goes after their gain. Behold, you are to them like a sensual song by one who has a beautiful voice and plays well on an instrument; for they hear your words but they do not practice them” (Ezek. 33:30-32). This is similar to what Isaiah wrote (29:13) and Matthew (15:8-9) and Mark (7:6,7) quote. It’s playing with God to speak as though we desire His Word and even listen to it but be driven by desires and a heart that practice something different (cf. Jas. 1:21-25). 

I need to have the good heart our dear brother expressed on Sunday morning. One who wants others to see and know how much He believes in God, loves Him, and intends to serve Him. May we all keep our hearts tender to God’s Word and let its power do its surgical work in removing what doesn’t belong and moving us to act on what does belong. 

WHEN YOU FEEL WEIGHED DOWN

Neal Pollard

Mark and Derek Noel have an incredible story.  Mark, the dad, thinks he weighed 460 pounds at his heaviest, though he couldn’t find scales that could weigh him. He talks about the depression, the shame, even the claustrophobia of being that size. He learned that he had a food addiction.  Today, he weighs 220 pounds and his son has also lost an incredible amount of weight. There’s still a mental struggle there, but through food journaling, exercise, and, above all, a desire to live, Mark is winning that battle (Megan Messerly, Las Vegas Sun, 10/19/15).

There are a great many people who can relate to the struggle and some who know the success of a story like theirs. A lot of people have eaten themselves into such a state of being, and most people struggle with self-control and wise decisions concerning food especially where it is abundant and easily accessible. I imagine few of those who get themselves into such a state are happy with the results.

There is something weighing on people in a far greater way than this, though.  It can happen in the midst of drought and famine. It is not exclusively a “first-world problem.”  Sin is a universal burden (Rom. 3:23).  The writer of Hebrews even describes it this way. He says, “Let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which so easily ensnares us” (Heb. 12:1). David wrote, “For my iniquities have gone over my head; Like a heavy burden they are too heavy for me” (Psa. 38:4).

Sometimes, when people are discussing the sin struggles they are coping with, they say, “I just feel weighed down.”  They are describing the effects of guilt and unhappiness, a disappointment and self-loathing produced by a conscience all too aware of the persistent reality of sin.  But, instead of addressing the problem, too many try to work it out on their own and never leave the vicious cycle of serving sin. Paul says the ultimate outcome of this approach is death (Rom. 6:23; cf. Jas. 1:15). What can you do when you feel weighed down?

  • Be Determined. One older song begins, “I am resolved no longer to linger.” The Prodigal Son said, “I will arise and go to my father and will say” (Luke 15:18). The journey home begins with making up your mind that you need to go.
  • Be Dependent. The Prodigal Son looked at the conditions at home and saw his need of the father. He says “my father’s” (Luke 15:17), “my father” (18), “Father” (18), “his father” (20), “Father” (21). The father was able to solve the problem and lift the burden.  The son simply had to swallow his pride and go to his father.
  • Be Decisive. The boy took action.  His resolve led to his return. He went from wanting to walking. As the rest of the parable reveals, the boy didn’t regret his decision.  There was celebration and reward in coming home.  Contrast that with the burden of staying in sin.

It’s very possible that you find yourself weighed down.  What good reason can you give for staying in that condition? Wouldn’t you rather lose the weight? I know you’ll feel better if you do!

AFTER 31 YEARS, MURDER VICTIM IS FOUND ALIVE

Neal Pollard

There was a disappearance and a murder confession.  So, the last thing police expected when they stopped at “Mrs. Schneider’s” apartment in Dusseldorf, Germany, was to find the 1984 murder victim, Petra Pazsitka, talking to them.  Thus began the unraveling of an elaborate plot by Ms. Pazskitka to disappear and reemerge with a new identity.  She was successful for 31 years, living in several West German cities without a passport, driver’s license, and social security card. She supported herself by “living off illicit cash-in-hand work” (via uk.news.yahoo.com). Why did the college student who had just completed her thesis on computer languages leave the grid and go into hiding? So far, there has been no explanation given. Perhaps there will eventually be more details and insight into this bizarre situation, but for now a grief-stricken family can take some measure of comfort in knowing their loved one they thought was dead is alive.

Spiritually, we are surrounded by the living dead.  It is the result of choices they’ve made.  This is even true for some who have abandoned God’s family and reemerged in the world having cast off the privileges and position of that honorable name they took on when they were baptized into Christ.

Paul says, “The mind set on the flesh is death” (Rom. 8:6). He tells Timothy, “But she who gives herself to wanton pleasure is dead even while she lives” (1 Tim. 5:6). God diagnosed an entire church, Sardis, “having a reputation of being alive” as being dead (Rev. 3:1). Of course, nothing illustrates the point better than Jesus’ parable of the Prodigal Son.  The younger son was off in the “far country,” and through that lifestyle he reached the point of desperation and despair. He repented and came home, where his father declared “my son was dead and is alive again” (Luke 15:24).

Sometimes, it makes no sense to us why a brother or sister leaves God’s family, abandoning spiritual life, hope, and heaven for spiritual death, hopelessness, and hell.  Yet, we must continue to search for them.  Let us pray that we can find those long since declared dead and encourage them so that we “save a soul from death and cover a multitude of sins” (Jas. 5:20). Search for them. Appeal to them. Help them reclaim the blessed identity they had when they had “life and peace” (Rom. 8:6).