God Wants Us With His People

Neal Pollard

A dear sister in Christ recently spoke candidly about a time in her recent past where she was staying at home and watching the services of a local church rather than assembling with them. She grew convicted that she needed to praise God with His people, and it brought her back to the assemblies. What a righteous response and what a potent truth! Does God want us with His people?

There is the oft-recited, familiar passage in Hebrews 10:24-25 that admonishes us to stimulate one another to love and good deeds by not forsaking the assembling of ourselves. Why the warning?

It’s an unhealthy habit. How do we know? Well, the writer warns us of as much. He ties it to neglecting the assemblies (ESV). Jesus uses that same word to ask the Father, “Why have you forsaken me?” (Matt. 27:46). Demas and the others deserted Paul when he needed their support (2 Tim. 4:10,16). It can also be translated abandon (Acts 2:27). Some do this with the assemblies. Attending is a habit formed by doing. Neglecting them is a habit formed by doing (or not going). You miss one, a few times, several times, and then you get to the place where you lose the desire to come together. Something else takes its place.

It’s a discouraging decision. How do we know? The writer tells us that through assembling we encourage one another. This connects us to the exhortation in the previous verse. By staying away, I fail to provide that friendly face, that timely word, that listening ear, that singing voice, that minute of interaction that likely makes a difference in encouraging the faithfulness of the recipients. The writer calls it “exhorting” one another, a beautiful word involving encouragement, consolation, comfort, and even pleading.

It’s a shortsighted approach. How do we know? The writer shows us by connecting assembling and eternity. He reminds us there is a great day coming, and all of us will be there! He follows this verse with the idea of judgment (27), punishment (28), the Lord judging His people (30), and falling into the hands of the living God (31). Those who withdraw themselves from God’s people and their meeting times for worship and study are indicating that their hearts, thoughts, priorities, and greater interests lie with the things of this life. A mind set on things above (Col. 3:1) makes plans, decisions, and efforts that leads closer to God and an eternal home with Him.

Oh, that there would be more tender hearts like the dear Christian whose conscience was pricked by God’s truth! She had stayed away, but she could not keeping staying away. She needed to be with God’s people. She knew her Father wanted the whole family together.

The High Cost of Careless Endorsement

Brent Pollard

You’ve received a notice from a page you interacted with through videos. The owner invites you to accept a badge showing you’re a top fan. A simple tap awards a badge for others to see—endorsing a page, personality, or content. It takes less time than a sneeze, but the algorithm remembers and quietly influences your feed. Paul understood quick endorsements early on: “Do not lay hands upon anyone too hastily and thereby share responsibility for the sins of others; keep yourself free from sin” (1 Timothy 5.22).

What the Laying On of Hands Meant in the New Testament Church

Timothy worked diligently in Ephesus under apostolic guidance to organize the congregation. Part of this effort involved appointing capable men to leadership roles. When the church laid hands on someone, it was a meaningful communal act. For example, at Jerusalem, the seven were presented to the apostles, who prayed and then laid their hands on them (Acts 6:6). Similarly, the church at Antioch fasted, prayed, and laid hands on Barnabas and Saul before sending them out (Acts 13.3). Timothy himself received a spiritual gift through prophetic words and the laying on of hands by the elders (1 Timothy 4.14). This gesture represented unity—confirming that the man represented the church, his teachings reflected their doctrine, and his character bore their name.

Because the act spoke loudly, Paul called for deliberate reflection. The qualities in 1 Timothy 3.1–7 and Titus 1.5–9 read like an in-depth character check—nothing a résumé can shortcut—being above reproach, temperate, prudent, able to teach, and maintaining “a good reputation with those outside the church” (1 Timothy 3.7). Paul explains why patience is vital: “The sins of some men are quite evident, going before them to judgment; for others, their sins follow after” (1 Timothy 5.24). Time reveals truth; character shows gradually. Someone who seems golden at first might only be gilded after a year.

Sharing Responsibility for the Sins of Others: The Doctrine of Shared Guilt

Here, the verse takes a serious turn. Paul warns that hastily endorsing someone risks more than embarrassment—it shares responsibility. Similarly, John states: “the one who gives him a greeting participates in his evil deeds” (2 John 11). A simple greeting, yet heaven views it as complicity since endorsement lends credibility, a form of moral currency. When the praised person falls into scandal, your hands are stained in the aftermath.

Paul urges us to avoid darkness and expose it (Ephesians 5.11). God illustrates this. He tested David and Jesus in hidden ways before giving divine approval. Should we rush to commend before celestial insight?

Keep Yourself Free from Sin: Discernment as an Act of Consecration

The verse closes with a call: “keep yourself free from sin”—meaning stay pure. But purity isn’t about primness; it’s about dedication—consciously dedicating your influence, your name, and your affections to what God approves. “How can a young man keep his way pure? By living according to Your word” (Psalm 119.9). The pure heart doesn’t just avoid defilement; it values something nobler. Paul prayed that love would flourish “in genuine knowledge and all discernment, so that you may approve the best things” (Philippians 1.9–10). When practiced rightly, discernment isn’t suspicion; it’s worship. It’s a declaration to God: my approval belongs to You first, and I will not squander Your blessings.

There’s real joy here, more lasting than earning a badge. The believer who chooses his associations sleeps peacefully, keeps a spotless reputation, and finds fulfillment in God’s approval, not algorithms. “You will make known to me the path of life; in Your presence is fullness of joy” (Psalm 16.11). Solomon emphasizes patience: “He who hurries his footsteps errs” (Proverbs 19.2). Rushing wastes time; holiness is savored.

Slow Hands in a Hasty Age: Practical Faithfulness for Today’s Christian

What, then, does obedience to 1 Timothy 5.22 look like when practiced consistently? It looks like the Bereans, who received the word with great eagerness, “examining the Scriptures daily to see whether these things were so” (Acts 17.11)—and they were examining an apostle. It looks like being “quick to hear, slow to speak” (James 1.19), and slower still to publicly commend. Before your congregation appoints a man, before you share a teacher’s video, before you badge a page or sign your name to a cause, let the questions of 1 Timothy 3 do their patient work. Watch the fruit. Wait a season. A hastily lent reputation returns slowly, if it returns at all.

Don’t overlook the vibrant gospel behind the command. When God embraced sinners, He did so purposefully and sacrificially, paying the eternal cost in blood. Christ stretched out His pierced hands and “gave Himself for us to redeem us from every lawless deed and to purify for Himself a people for His own possession, zealous for good deeds” (Titus 2.14). His favor bought your name, which you carry into every new connection. Gratefulness for costly grace calls for careful stewardship.

Keep your hands steady and heart eager—be thoughtful before endorsing, quick to obey. Carefully consider praise. Shine light on darkness instead of joining it. Use your influence for virtue and enthusiasm for good deeds. Remember, the One who never rushed to judgment extended His hands at Calvary. Live to honor that endorsement.

All Scripture quotations are from the New American Standard Bible, 1995 edition.

Who Will Help Me Get To Paradise? 

Carl Pollard

Proverbs 1:15-19 says, “my son, do not walk in the way with them; hold back your foot from their paths, for their feet run to evil, and they make haste to shed blood. For in vain is a net spread in the sight of any bird, but these men lie in wait for their own blood; they set an ambush for their own lives. Such are the ways of everyone who is greedy for unjust gain; it takes away the life of its possessors.” 

Verse 15 is a direct tie to the invitation to participate in sin found in verse 11. Sin must be rejected at the first temptation, by refusing even the association that can lead to sin. Avoid the beginnings of sin. Reject the offer to even associate with those who are in sin. Even if we aren’t participating in the deeds of the wicked, there is still guilt by association. Growing up my brothers would convince me to come along with them in breaking a rule, even though I was a perfect and innocent child, I would still get in trouble with mom and dad because I was with them…well maybe I wasn’t all that perfect. But by choosing to hang with the wrong crowd, we risk facing the consequence of hurting our reputation. If our friends invite us to spend the evening at a bar, we can hurt our influence as Christians even if we never have a drink. If we hang with the troublemakers we will be seen as a troublemaker. There are consequences tied to the decisions we make. 

Verse 16 is a warning not to keep evil company. To be careful in the friends we choose. There is guilt by association. You may not be guilty of their sins; but if you are caught with them, you will pay the terrible penalty with them. Sometimes peer pressure causes us to hang with a group of friends that are in sin. But we rationalize it by convincing ourselves that we are strong enough to say no. We may even associate with them with good intention; but the longer we stay, the more deeply involved we become. The only way to avoid this is to do what Scripture advises. Don’t go with them in the first place. The time to say “no” is before we get in too deep.

Verse 17 is another illustration. “As a bird flies into a net and is caught, so will the sinner get caught if he goes head long into sin.” The thing is, many times we know the net is there, but we fly towards it anyway. We know there are consequences to sin, but we do it anyway. Scripture paints a vivid picture of the consequences we will face if we allow our lives to be filled with sin. John 8:34 Jesus tells us, “everyone who practices sin is a slave to sin.” Practicing sin leads to the consequence of slavery. This is a vivid analogy showing us that by choosing to sin we are enslaved to it. Sin can and will control every aspect of our lives. 

Isaiah 59:2 reveals, “but your iniquities have made a separation between you and your God, and your sins have hidden his face from you so that he does not hear.” Another consequence of sin is separation from God the Father. 

Our actions will determine whether God will listen to us or not. It’s obvious that we will never inherit eternal life if we let sin continue to separate us from God. Romans 6:23 shows us the worst consequence of sin, “The wages of sin is death.” Our physical deaths will only be the beginning of an eternity in torment. The payment of sin is spiritual death. 

Solomon warns us of the importance of choosing the right company. He tells us that we have a choice. We can choose righteous company that will help us reach our reward, or we can choose the sinful company. But by doing so, we are accepting sin’s invitation and therefore must face the consequences. 

Because It’s Forbidden

Tuesday’s Column: Dale Mail

Dale Pollard

The moment evil takes hold, we’re as good as dead. The fall of man is deeper than just the poor decision to eat forbidden fruit. It began when Eve began making multiple poor choices. 

She spent time in the presence of the evil snake. There’s nothing inherently sinful taking place at this point. It’s just unwise. 

The snake struck when it saw it had an opportunity. It’s victim was in ear shot, so it began to speak. There’s nothing sinful about listening to evil, either. After all, the snake couldn’t override Eve’s freewill. 

The snake was crafty. Crafty enough to realize that Eve’s young and poor decisions could potentially develop into a strong and mature sin. He just needed to make a compelling case that was tailored to Eve’s underlying and natural human instincts. 

If the snake could manage to redirect her healthy desires in another direction, he would effectively unleash sin on the world. That’s temptation. Temptation is both universal and unique. Most of us share similar wicked proclivities, but those unique temptations that only a portion of society might find intoxicatingly beautiful can be repulsive to you. Eve’s choice to be near sin and to converse with it led her to reach, pluck, and eat. 

Now her marriage had been destroyed, whether she knew it or not. Adam and Eve are already incompatible. Eve could ask  for forgiveness but living with those consequences would be tough. It might be better to share in the guilt and suffer with someone who understands her. Her misery needed company and If she’s going to die, she didn’t want to die alone. 

That drive to have shared experiences and enjoy a commonality with someone has been tainted but she still craves intimacy. Instead of taking responsibility for her own actions alone, she decides to lead her husband into the same mess so that they might clean it up— together. 

Soon the two of them would live in a new world of hardship. Their options were, 

   1. work together and live 

2. or die alone. 

Fix the problem as a team, or make poor choices that will lead to more sins which will further the destruction of their pure desires. That’s a foundational principle and it applies to every relationship we have. God’s creation wasn’t made better by our selection of evil. Our freewill caused God pain as well. His creation would turn on Him and be the source of terrible grief, anger, and frustration. God’s forgiveness and patience is a testament to His perfect love for us. 

WHAT VIRTUAL WORSHIP CANNOT ACCOMPLISH

Monday’s Column: Neal At The Cross

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Neal Pollard

This is not a judgment against those of us who have stayed home, especially those vulnerable, for whatever period of time to protect ourselves from legitimate risk of contracting the Coronavirus. It is an attempt to exhort and encourage those of us who have concluded that participating virtually meets what God intends for the assemblies. While we may get to see the church worship and engage in Bible class and receive edification, we are missing quite a bit of what God designed for the church by assembling together.

What can’t we accomplish when we remain in the virtual setting?

  • We cannot stimulate one another to either love or good deeds (Heb. 10:24).
  • We cannot exhort one another (Heb. 10:25).
  • We cannot speak to, teach, or admonish one another in psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs (Eph. 5:19). 
  • We cannot come together and edify (1 Cor. 14:26). 
  • We cannot welcome visitors from the community who have come to the assemblies.
  • We cannot engage in the enriching, faith-building, and faith-preserving fellowship the early church found so essential (Acts 2:42ff). 
  • We cannot congregate, as they did (Acts 4:32). 
  • We cannot come together and eat the Lord’s Supper, as they did (1 Cor. 11:20,33). 

Let’s not forget the responsibility God puts upon each Christian to all others who assemble. Worship is not just personal and vertical, it is also horizontal. 

I met the mom and brother of my good friend, Al Washington, last night at the Palm Beach Lakes church of Christ. They are members of the Third St. congregation.