Tag: dignity

Cut Flowers Die

Carl Pollard

There is something beautiful about cut flowers. For a little while, they still look alive. Their color remains, and their shape stays intact. But everyone knows the same thing about cut flowers, they are dying. Why? Because they have been separated from their source of life.

Isn’t that a fitting picture of morality without God? A person can cut off the flower and still admire it for a while. And in the same way, a society can cut itself off from God and still hold on to certain moral values for a time. People may continue speaking about honesty, kindness, fidelity, justice, compassion, and decency. Outwardly, the flower is still there, but cut flowers die.

If morality is the flower, then God is the root. If righteous living is the fruit, then God’s word is the seed. Once people sever morality from the authority of Scripture, they may preserve the appearance of goodness for a generation or two, but it will not last! Morality can’t survive long when it’s disconnected from the One who defines what is good.

God Is The Source Of What Is Good

The Bible doesn’t present morality as something man invented. Goodness doesn’t begin with culture, education, public opinion, or human consensus. It begins with God! 

Psalm 119:68 says, “You are good and do good; teach me Your statutes.” Good is rooted in God’s character. He is the standard.

James 1:17 says, “Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, and comes down from the Father of lights.” If every truly good gift comes from above, then moral truth does too. Man doesn’t discover morality by looking within himself. He learns morality by reading the Word of God. Micah 6:8 says, “He has shown you, O man, what is good.” Micah doesn’t say man figured out what is good, he says God has shown him. Moral truth is revealed truth! 

Morality Without God Cannot Stand

Many people want the flower without the root. They want the benefits of biblical morality without submission to biblical authority. They want strong families without God’s design for the family. They want justice without acknowledging the Judge of all the earth. They want dignity, value, love, sacrifice, and truth, but they don’t want the God who gives those words meaning.

But once morality is detached from God, it becomes unstable. Why is honesty good? Why is murder wrong? Why is sexual purity honorable? Why should someone sacrifice for another person? Why should the strong protect the weak? Why should truth matter more than desire?

If theres no God, then those questions have no fixed answer. Morality becomes preference, tradition, social convenience, or majority opinion. And what one generation calls virtue, the next generation may call oppression. What one culture honors, another may reject. Without God, morality becomes negotiable! 

Judges 21:25 describes the chaos that results when God’s rule is cast aside,

“Everyone did what was right in his own eyes.” That is the natural end of morality cut loose from God. When man becomes his own standard, he doesn’t gain freedom, he finds confusion. 

Proverbs 14:12, “There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end is the way of death.” What “seems right” isn’t enough. Human instinct isnt a trustworthy moral compass. Feelings change, cultures drift, and hearts deceive.

Jeremiah 10:23 says, “O Lord, I know the way of man is not in himself; it is not in man who walks to direct his own steps.” Man can’t author a lasting morality because he was never meant to be his own god.

Cut flowers are beautiful, but eventually they whither and die. Moral decency without God is doomed to fail. 

The Most Beautiful Attribute?

Can something commanded also be a thing of beauty? Paul indicates as much to a young man he mentored, showing us how versatile and needed this quality is in a world which needs it to stand out.

Neal Pollard

Some of the most breathtaking moments of my life have been walking through a mountain meadow in summertime. In those high altitudes where snow falls in abundance for many months, the resulting flowers that briefly bloom there seem to stand out all the more against the high, rocky backdrops. While majestic in their own right, those crags and peaks are accented and highlighted by the reds, purples, pinks, violets, and yellows that dot the paths and cling to the alpine hillsides (cf. Matt. 6:29-30). We are set apart from the world and set apart to glorify Him, in part by living holy, consecrated lives. These appropriate beliefs and devout practices that stand out in our world are called “godliness,” an attribute that even bears God’s glorious name.

1 Timothy was written by Paul to Timothy, a young preacher for the church at Ephesus. In 1 Timothy 3:15, he states that the purpose of his writing was to reveal what was proper conduct in the church that belongs to God, and so it is no surprise to see that Paul fills the letter with instructions about how to behave. And it’s also not a surprise that the word “good” occurs 20 times in the letter, and godliness 15 times. Godliness seems to play an especially key role in Paul’s message. 

  • Paul previews what he says in the heart of the letter by saying law exists for, among other, the “ungodly” (1:9).
  • Starting in chapter two, getting down to business (“First of all,” 2:1), he says our attitude toward those in government must be “in all godliness” (2:2) and that Christian women conduct themselves in a way that makes good their claim to “godliness” (2:10).
  • Elders (3:4) and deacons (3:8) must be men of “dignity” (same word), and the women addressed in 3:11 must likewise be “dignified” (same word). Jesus is the embodiment of the “mystery of godliness” (16). 
  • In chapter four, godliness is defined as distinguishing between what lasts and what will not last (4:7-8).
  • In chapter five, godliness is tied to properly treating and caring for our family (5:5–“show piety”).
  • In chapter six, godliness relates to having the right attitude toward wealth and material things (6:3,5,6,11)

Taken as a whole, Paul shows godliness to be crucial in our church life and roles, our personal devotional life, the doctrine we teach, the things we prioritize, the role models we follow, and the way we treat our family. Clearly, godliness must be a part of every facet of our lives; it’s what and who we must be. Nothing is more beautiful than a life that reflects God in thoughts, words, and deeds. Let’s let His Word guide us so that we will properly conduct ourselves as children in His house.