Why You Matter

God expects us to treat each other with love and humility. He holds us accountable for the ways that we interact with our neighbors. Every command from God is essential to follow, but Jesus identifies two of the greatest commands in Matthew 22:36-40. “Love God with heart, soul and mind.” And, “Love your neighbor as yourself.” All are worthy of love, but we are called to love and value others the way we love and value ourselves. 

However, a problem that many struggle with is how to love others if we don’t even love ourselves? God sees each one of us as valuable and worthy of love. He expects us to treat each other with respect, dignity, and honor. How will we fulfill the second greatest command if we don’t even love ourselves? 

Your view of yourself directly impacts how you will treat others. If you struggle with loving others it is often as a result of low self esteem or an unhealthy dislike of who you are. Hurt people hurt people, and if you can’t see the value of your soul, how can you see the value in others? 

If you had a friend that talked to you the way you talk to yourself, how long would they be your friend? This article isn’t supposed to be a self-help, life coach lesson, but at the same time we are going to dive into what makes us worthy of love. 

This article is all about why you matter, not just to God, but to the church, your physical family, and to the world. 

Every person on earth is unique, but you will never talk to someone that God doesn’t love! That’s why we are expected to treat each other with love. When you turn away from someone in need, you are turning your back on someone God values. When you speak hateful things to someone, you are saying these things to someone God loves. When you gossip, insult and belittle someone, you are doing it to a human that God sent His Son to die for. Every human soul is precious. Anyone who says otherwise contradicts our Creator. His opinion of you matters most. 

Why treat God’s pride and joy of creation this way? 

Do you see why you matter? In The Declaration Of Independence you read the phrase, “we hold these truths to be self evident, that all men are created equal.” If all are created equal, why do we treat others as if they are any less valuable? Is it true that all are created equal? According to God the answer is a resounding YES! 

The joy of the gospel is that no matter how you may feel, or what others say, no matter how good or bad your life is, YOU MATTER TO GOD. I’m not just saying this as an opinion, it is the truth. Problem is, society today has some difficulty with this truth. Let’s imagine that there is no God. Imagine that we all came from a singular source of matter that evolved throughout time. Imagine that in order to become humans we had to be smarter and stronger than other species. 

Imagine that existence is simply a battle of survival. If you are one of the weak ones who dies, nothing exists beyond your death.

Your life was ultimately meaningless when all memory of you dies with your lifeless cells. If all of that were true, would you matter at all? Or are we just a product of chance and time? 

Theres no value found in that! According to secular science we are where we are today because we survived in a brutal fight with all other species. That doesn’t lead to valuing life at all. If there is no God, no one can say with certainty that life is of any value. 

Thankfully, there is a God. And because of HIS goodness we are able to have full assurance that our lives matter.

Our view of whether someone is valuable or not is usually superficial. Our value doesn’t come from the success we’ve had in life, it comes from something far greater than anything we could do on our own. Our value is ascribed to us by God Himself. Genesis 1:26 God says, “Let us make man in our image, after our likeness.” Before we ever did anything, our origin began with God making us in His image. The value of your life isn’t based on how much money your family has. It’s not based on what physical features you have. Your value is not based on what talents or skills you have to offer. You are valuable because in the beginning God made you in HIS image! Not just a select few. ALL of mankind is made in the image of God! That’s why we are valuable and why YOU matter!