By Kathy Pollard

There are several variations of a quote that goes something like, “People can inspire you or they can drain you…choose wisely.” Sage advice if it’s true that we become like the people we spend the most time with. We need to invest in relationships that will bring out the best in us, and be careful around those whose disagreeable traits could rub off on us.

Don’t you think it’s pretty easy to tell the difference? When I think of those who inspire me, I can rattle off several reasons why. The same goes for those who drain me (that sounds harsh, I know). Here’s how that looks to me:

Inspiring

• expresses love
• encourages
• compliments
• looks for the positive
• cheerful disposition
• instills courage in others
• sees the good in others
• expresses gratitude
• patient
• smiles
• warm
• pays attention
• brings people together
• engages
• tries new things
• shares
• speech reflects a…