
Neal Pollard
If there were ten families just like Wayne and Betty Nelson in every congregation, the building could not contain all the people who would attend them. They are consummate servants and lovers of Christ, and it shows in an endless number of ways. Recently, Betty shared with me her doctors’ sternest recommendation. Due to the cancer treatment she underwent, her bone marrow was so compromised that she is permanently left with an insufficient immune system. That means she is most susceptible to any germ or disease, large or small. Thus, the doctors have warned her not to be in public places where sick people and germs are certain to be found. That includes the assemblies of the church.
Suppose it were to be told by doctors to you or me that we could no longer assemble with the saints? How would we react? Would we burst into tears? Would we become depressed? Would we be relieved? How great a change and effect would it have on our current practice?
Betty has been faithfully attending church services even before those services were with the Lord’s church, as she grew up in a denomination. She became a Christian after marrying Wayne, and up until her cancer was not only a faithful attender but a very involved Christian woman. Even from home confinement, she continues to edify and evangelize through sending cards and maximizing the few contacts she is able to have in her circumstances. To say that the doctors’ diagnosis disturbs her is to grossly understate it. She was devastated. She yearns to be present, so much so that when weather and health permits she stands at the fence or on her back porch watching her brothers and sisters arrive and walk to the church building doors. She often cries as she watches others doing what she so longs to do, too. She greatly misses the fellowship, the ability to work elbow to elbow with her fellow Christians, and the uplift of worship and Bible class.
I left Betty’s hospital room thinking about this matter. Do we ever view attending a church service as drudgery or dull duty? Do we ever choose, from fatigue to family, stagnation to sports, weakness to willfulness, to avoid the assemblies? Do we long to meet or think we meet too long? What if the doctors quarantined me from the church? How much would it change and effect me? May the Lord grant us all the humility and wisdom to evaluate this and answer, honestly and with our heart.
















