Reconciled (45:1-28)
Neal Pollard
Now, it was time. In fact, it appears that Joseph could no longer hold it back. All the emotion, all the years came flowing out in this moment of time. The days of contention with her brothers, the day in the pit, the years in the dungeon, as difficult as they were to endure, must now have seemed like a distant memory. In the entire narrative, this is probably my favorite chapter. Don’t you hate to see loved ones and dear friends at great odds with each other? Or those who have hurt loved ones and friends who refuse to make it right? So much water has gone under the bridge leading us to these touching moments.
Disclosure (1-3).
Joseph’s emotions are uncontrollable and he cries (1). He dismisses everyone but his brothers. His weeping could be heard all the way to Pharaoh’s house (2). Then, he said it! “I am Joseph! Is my father still alive?” (3). How many times since he had first seen them had he wanted to tell them, restrained only by his wisdom and perhaps the providence of God?
Dismay (3-5).
While it may not have been divinely intended, I wonder if there’s a touch of humor in the brothers’ response? Joseph reveals his identity, “But his brothers could not answer him, for they were dismayed at his presence” (3). They are speechless! They believed him long ago dead, having rotted in some prison, abused by some taskmaster, or killed in the toil of a slave. But here he is before them. Of course, it was a sobering moment for them. The brother they betrayed had the power and backing of the powerful Egyptian nation behind him. Joseph beckons them to come near him, and he seeks to console them.
Discernment (5-8).
The brothers had been selfish, calculating, and without self-control. They had been wicked and sinful. What was Joseph’s perspective? He saw God in all this. Four times in his answer, Joseph credits God: “God sent me before you to preserve life” (5), “God sent me before you to preserve a remnant” (7), and “it was not you who sent me here, but God” (8; see his instructions in verse 9, too). Oh, for a heart, a mind, and a maturity to see life through Joseph-shaped glasses! To see my challenges, setbacks, adversities, and trials as the tools God uses to accomplish His purpose (Js. 1:2-4)! How that transforms tears into triumphs!
Directions (9-25).
Joseph urges the brothers to go back home without “delay” (9). He tells them where they will live, in the rich pasturelands of Goshen. He directs them to tell his father the power and position he had in Egypt. After all the weeping, embracing, and catching up with them, Pharaoh learns the news and rolls out the red carpet for Joseph’s family. He offers the best of the land (20), then Joseph lavishes them with many gifts. He heaps Benjamin with an extraordinary measure of goods and garments and his dad with extravagant gifts (23). Interestingly, he admonishes them not to quarrel on the way (24). The brothers comply!
Delight (26-28).
Jacob is given the news and reacts like the brothers. He was stunned and in disbelief (26). But when he was shown evidence of the truth of their news, we read, “the spirit of their father Jacob revived” (27)! Something he thought was impossible was now the prospect before him. He would see Joseph again!
For all the dysfunction and missteps of this household, the beauty of unity rises like cream to the top! How it reminds me of God’s family today. While it is better to never have strife (1 Cor. 1:10-13), it is beautiful to see the humility, the spirit of forgiveness, the penitence, and the fruits of repentance that brings us back together again! When self is surrendered for the good of a brother or sister (Phil. 2:3-4), God is glorified and His work progresses. It is worth repeating: “Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brothers to dwell together in unity!” (Psa. 133:1).
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